Who here is a loner?

Originally posted by FOX Riddle me this... Why is it, that every woman I meet, eventually says.... "I want to go out! I want to be around people! I need some excitement! I need to socialize!! I am a people-person!" Is this strictly a female phenomena? Why on earth would you want to constantly be around people and bathe in the toxins people bring to the table? And then its damned if you do, and damned if you dont. You end up getting bitched at for not going out, but then when you do go out she fuckin whines about something the whole time. Case in point: Remember my psycho ex flame I mentioned who slowly hijacked my home and made it hers? She always wanted to go out, and then when we did, she would complain about "that bitch over there who keeps looking at you" (WHERE?? 🙂 ) or..."Lets go! Somehwhere else!" During the summers, I would bounce at a club to pad my income. Which sucked considering I hate people and most especially large groups of them under the influence of alcohol and whatever else. She would bitch because I was there all night, but then she would show up there in her best garb just to fuck with me and spy on me. Then she would attempt to hang out next to me while I am doing my job, then make a scene when I would tell her to beat it. With people and with most women...in the end you lose. FOX Well that observation is on point bro. Woman LOVE attention from EVERY angle and it is RARE that your giving them attention will be enough. They need reassurance CONSTANTLY! And you are absolutely right about them talking shit all night long about EVERY other woman within sight. ESPECIALLY the hot ones. Thats their way of constantly reassuring themselves, since your doing so and everyone else doing so is not enough... Shit... its NEVER enough. I have met very few (if any) women who are secure and comforitable enough in who they are to actually allow them to sit easy for two fucking minutes without having to look in the mirrror, peak around to see who is checking them out, or look for another girl to bash. But that all comes back to self esteem issues and people not liking (or knowing) who they are... Men are the same but we just handle it differently thats all. and its no surprise to me that we are all a bit anti social. look at the sample of people you are asking. We all talk as much, if not more to people on an internet discussion board than to REAL PEOPLE. lol At least i do as of late. But.. there are some people who are just "people persons". I got a good friend who it just comes natural to. He can go up and talk to anybody anywhere, as if he has known them 20 years. He has no motives, he is just a real friendly and talkative guy. Nothing fake about it. And if there is any man in this entire world that I envy, it is him... I WISH I could be that open and confident. He gets soooooo much panty it isnt even funny... And he doesnt even try. He just talks to EVERY girl that walks by... and it NEVER seems like a line. Damn... wish I had that gift. It truly fucking is a gift. I try, but it just doesnt come across naturally for me most times... Guess I will just have to stick to being the guy with the mean look on his face who always looks like he is about to committ a homicide. :devil: