How woman flirt and why?

if a girl leans slightly forward about 86 degrees, than she might be interested.. if its 87 and above, signs point that she is not interested.. as far as having girls come up to you.. have a gadget of some sort, otherwise you will have to make initial contact..

Valryan, that's what i'm talkin about. You see, unless the guy suffers from hypogonadism, he will never turn a girl down, even if she's not that hot. With men, it is a constant "yes"(sexually speaking) with girls it's not a constant "yes" because of various reasons(not that they're not all whores), but it's not gaurentee. Sometimes us guys have bigger balls than other days, especially if we just got laid, but sometimes we get intimidated(not "real" intimidation) by the possibility of getting turned down. It's not that we have fear of rejection, but it's just kind of a let down and it sucks. We can rationalize "Well if i do nothing, nothing happens, so it makes more sense to try something." but sometimes that seems like alot of work. Its up and down with guys. Spmetimes we can do it, and sometimes we kinda shit ourselves. And then of course some guys are just studs who can get boyband ass. But let me just say that it's easier many times to approch a girl you don't like that much. So, Cutie, don't look at a guy approaching you or not approching you as "lack of balls" or "he has balls", but look at it as he probably found you hot, but not that hot that he'd be anxious to talk to you. So maybe he found some other girl way more attractive than you, but didn't feel like getting turned down by her. However, he thought you were hot, but not too hot that he would give a crap if you turned him down or not.

Originally posted by anabolicboy But let me just say that it's easier many times to approch a girl you don't like that much. So, Cutie, don't look at a guy approaching you or not approching you as "lack of balls" or "he has balls", but look at it as he probably found you hot, but not that hot that he'd be anxious to talk to you. So maybe he found some other girl way more attractive than you, but didn't feel like getting turned down by her. However, he thought you were hot, but not too hot that he would give a crap if you turned him down or not. ummm ok lol never thought of it that way....so If a guy approaches me it's basically cause he finds someone else hotter then me? LOL....I'm sorry just find that rather funny..... but I think I understand what you're saying...... Cutie

When I flirt with a guy, I just look him in the eyes with a little grin and don't look away when eye contact is made. Usually they can tell after that look. That's with a stranger I'm attracted to. If it's someone I know as a friend that I've suddenly acquired an attraction towards, I tend to giggle and make pretty obvious flirting gestures... Flirting is SO fun!!! 🙂 Especially when our (females) efforts are rewarded!

I think its great if a girl is upfront and approaches a guy 1st. Personally I could never do it though, maybe I'm just too old fashioned. If I really liked a guy I would probably hold eye contact with him a bit longer than usual. Depending on his response, I would then probably smile. After that its up to him to make the next move. Basically all you have to do is try & hold eye contact with her and look for a positive response. If she smiles then you're pretty safe and don't need to worry about rejection, if she ignores you then move on to the next. Most of those so called "subtle clues" are usually done subconciously if she likes you. Keep in mind she may just be suffering from anxiety, so be careful relying on those clues.